戀愛中進展太快 該怎麼辦?

What was a red flag that made you stop talking to a person immediately?

From:Isadora Delvichio

I was seeing this guy, and everything was going well. He would buy me ice cream, we would sit down and have nice conversations at the beach, and one day he invited me over to his house to play some video games. I said okay. Everything was going great. We kissed. We held hands. You know, relationship stuff. There came a point I walked to the kitchen to serve myself another glass of wine, I was pretty tipsy. He comes up to me, and pushes me up against the wall. Needless to say I did enjoy this, but I also felt that things were going a bit too fast so I pulled away to stop kissing him, and he wouldn’t get off of me. I pressed on him lightly to push him away, and smiled while I turned my head, and that is when he slapped me across the face. I looked at him in utter shock for a few moments, and he just stared at me. I asked “what the hell are you thinking man.” And he responds by saying that he is dominant. I grabbed my shit and left. I was like no no no. I’m not about to be a statistic. He chased after me begging and apologizing saying that he thought I was into that. I took it as a red flag and never looked back.

我在和他約會,一切都很順利。他會給我買冰淇淋,我們會坐在海灘上愉快地交談,有一天他邀請我去他傢玩電子遊戲。我說好的。一切都很順利。我們接吻瞭。我們牽手瞭。你知道,男女關系之類的。有一次,我走到廚房,又給自己倒瞭一杯酒,我有點醉瞭。他走到我面前,把我推到墻上。不用說,我確實很喜歡這樣,但我也覺得事情進展得有點太快瞭,所以我抽離瞭,不想再親他瞭,但他就是不願離開我。我輕輕推瞭他一下,想把他推開。我轉過頭,微笑著,他就在我臉上扇瞭我一巴掌。我震驚地看瞭他一會兒,他隻是盯著我看。我問他:“你到底在想什麼?”他回答說,他占主導地位。我抓起我的東西就走瞭。我說不不不。我不打算成為一個統計數字。他追著我求我,道歉說他認為我喜歡那個。我把它當作一個危險信號,再也沒有回頭。

小編zzz總結

女孩子在外面一定要保護好自己!

Girls must protect themselves outside!

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